• experience inexplicable affliction or pain in relation with sexual activity, gynecological examination or intercourse but is unaware of why
  • have a diagnosis for the discomfort / pain you feel in connection with sexual activity, intercourse, or gynecological examination
  • may have seen the doctor but did not receive a satisfying answer or diagnosis
  • want to read about the relation between a diagnose and sexual issues 
  • long for inspiration to get your love life on the right track
  • consider talking to the doctor or those closest to you, but you do not know how to express your problem
  • feel isolated and want to know, if there are others who feel like you

When Love Hurts cannot give you a diagnosis or recommend treatment. It is up to your doctor to do this. However, on this website you may find

  • information about pain, where it is placed, what it might imply and how to prepare your meeting with your doctor (Why pain?)
  • provide knowledge about a specific diagnosis and sexuality (Diagnoses
  • tools that can help you better cope with the situation you are in (Self Help)
  • inspiration to your sex life with or without a partner (The Love Bit)

When Love Hurts is made by Props & Pearls, based on Nikolaj Plads in the center of Copenhagen, Denmark.

In the Props & Pearls boutique many woman have received a helping hand on their journeys with pelvic pain and other sexual afflictions, as they find a way either to live with or resolve their issues . We wish to share what we have learned with you. 

When Love Hurts membership is 3 dollar a month. The money is used to maintain and if possible to expand. Please write if there are areas you miss.

Everything in relation with your treatment and diagnosis must be done after consulting your doctor.



When Love Hurts is developed and supported by Props & Pearls, a social economic enterprise based on Nikolaj Plads no. 23 in Copenhagen, Denmark – founded and own by Birgitte Baht and Rosemarie Wedell-Wedellsborg i 2005. Since, Props & Pearls  has been a women’s healthcare lounge, shop and online portal – www.propsandpearls.com. Props & Pearls was founded to serve women dealing with issues such […]

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In addition to When Love Hurts, Props & Pearls has initiated several projects that improve the knowledge of women’s health issues and create dialogue, in order to fight taboos and myths. This work is done with the help from the women, who frequent Props & Pearls – purchasing products, sharing their time and experiences.  Props & Pearls projects […]

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