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Sexual boundaries might be things like “I don’t do one-night stands” or “I insist on using condoms” or “Don’t touch my butthole, please.”<\/p>\n
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All of these and all other sexual boundaries are important in ensuring our safety and comfort in the bedroom. But it isn\u2019t always enough – or easy for that matter – to say \u201cNo butt-stuff.\u201d Because boundaries are the most important, whether it is regarding casual sex or long-term partners.\u00a0Here\u2019s a little proposal:<\/p>\n
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Your partner\u2019s previous partner might have liked it quick and dirty, but that doesn\u2019t mean that you want it that way.<\/p>\n
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Don\u2019t assume your partner will know what you want. Everyone is different regarding what turns them on an what turns them off. Just as you won\u2019t know what your partner wants, unless you ask about it or act on<\/span> signals, you are given<\/span><\/span>. If you need to know more about each other, go to U&I<\/a><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Sometimes there are places on our bodies that we don\u2019t want to be touched. Whether it be your ticklish thighs, your super sensitive neck, your calloused runner\u2019s feet, or what have you, your partner won\u2019t know that you have off-limits body parts unless you tell them. They might even forget in the heat of the moment. No matter what, you are always allowed to have No Fly Zones.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Keep telling your partner in a friendly tone or redirect them gently.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n The violent, sexist nature of pornography has warped the approach and understanding of normal, comforting, wonderful and fun everyday sex.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Not every woman wants her hair pulled and to be slapped, but your partner may think so. Speak up! Especially if your partner pulls some porn moves on you, do not be afraid to stop them.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Sexual boundaries might be things like “I don’t do one-night stands” or “I insist on using condoms” or “Don’t touch my butthole, please.” All of these and all other sexual boundaries are important in ensuring our safety and comfort in the bedroom. But it isn\u2019t always enough – or easy for that matter – to…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1752,"parent":190,"menu_order":69,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_locale":"en_US","_original_post":"208","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-208","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","en-US"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/208","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=208"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/208\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8286,"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/208\/revisions\/8286"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/190"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1752"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/w-l-h.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=208"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}No-fly zones<\/h2>\n
Porn is not real sex<\/h2>\n