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If you have lost the ability to have sex. The change might make you wonder if sex needs to be a part of your future life if penetration is no longer an option.<\/p>\n
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Maybe you have heard that the blind has a better hearing. One sense takes over from another. It even seems as if the area in the brain allocated to sense does not shut down when it vanishes. One would think that if you are deaf, the field for hearing in the brain will shut down, but instead, it apparently supports<\/span><\/span> touch and vision. Maybe it is not so different when it comes to feeling pleasure from sex. If one erogenous zone is being removed, it might leave room for another zone to grow and glow. If penetration is a no-go, and you feel open to working with it, then body and brain might be able to find new ways. The feeling might not be the same, but that doesn\u2019t mean that it cannot be fulfilling.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n A narrow sexual path being transformed into a 4-lane highway is a process.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Consider this: I am right-handed. I think my right-hand takes up more space in my brain than my left hand. The right hand can do things my left hand wouldn\u2019t even dream of. But what if my right hand was taken away and I had to use my left hand, it would take up more space \u2013 perhaps \u2013 not overnight but with training and pushing the limits.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Sexual pleasure might not be the same again. But you may be able to create new combinations. If you think of it, sexual pleasure is about tensing, culminating and letting go. Nerve messages are build up and transformed into a feeling of peak and resolution.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n The 6-8000 nerves in the clitoris, all meant to give pleasure, might have been taken out of the equation. What other factors can then be added to the mix?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n It will require work – you might call it an investment – to build up a love life on these or other elements. But isn\u2019t it worth it? Get inspiration from The Love Bit\u00a0<\/a>to why. Remember to enjoy the journey. Get some tickling feathers to play with, silk and lace to cling to your body. Maybe\u00a0a vibrator can kick some life into those new zones. (Props & Pearls recommends<\/a>)\u00a0<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n This journey will be a lot easier if you really dig yourself.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do you find yourself sexy and gorgious? You should!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Some need to start bragging to themselves about how irresistible<\/span> they are. Is there something you like: your smell, your ankles? \u2026 give them your full attention and let them serve your pleasure.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you have someone close, ask them to tell whenever they find you attractive. You need to feel like a goddess on earth. We are not sure the goddesses had penetrative sex, they were too celestial for that.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n From this point, introduce new norms and new standards. Penetrative sex was wonderful, but that doesn\u2019t mean there are not thousands of other ways to have enjoyable sex. Be playful, be inventive, and get inspired. <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n If you have lost the ability to have sex. The change might make you wonder if sex needs to be a part of your future life if penetration is no longer an option. OTHER SENSES TAKE OVER Maybe you have heard that the blind has a better hearing. One sense takes over from another. 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Please put yourself on the Pedestal<\/h2>\n
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In practice<\/h2>\n
the illusion of penetration<\/h3>\n